Lets talk about love

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 20:32

I am attempting to start a nice, fresh new thread all about love...

I think there are lots of couples here in the TRNC who like me, moved over here with their partners/husbands/wives etc



Some may have been married a while, what do you think has been the secret of the success of your long relationship?

Has going through all the dramas of settling in here brought you closer together?

Are any like me with a Turkish/Turkish Cypriot partner? Do you have any funny stories about differences in culture/problems with in-laws etc



Has anyone got married on this beautiful island? Any tips to organising the perfect wedding abroad?



...others may have just met, did you think you would find love here?!...



Or: Are there any single, perhaps divorced or even single parents looking for love here & finding it hard? Perhaps next time a single's/single parent get together could be organised at Guido's ;0)



Please add your stories, lets talk about something nice...lets talk about love!

Nat

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 20:42

...for those in the UK, do you find that when you come here on your holidays to your villas that it does your relationship the world of good? All that sun, sea... etc etc!

natx

DutchCrusader



Joined: 19/05/2008
Posts: 11281

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 21:08

RE msg 2, NatAless > All that sun, sea... etc etc! <



=> etc etc?! Dear Nat, you're not going to start a TRNC version of OK! magazine, are you..?!

teatime


Joined: 20/10/2008
Posts: 852

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 21:13

Nope

Just end up with arguments, better off back home where we can avoid each other.....

Lemtich



Joined: 15/02/2007
Posts: 1487

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 21:14

How can we miss each other if you don't go away?



Lem

mrcyprus


Joined: 26/06/2009
Posts: 270

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 21:16

Does NatAless have somebody in mind for a wedding on this island then !?!?

natalie


Joined: 03/05/2009
Posts: 323

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 21:30

Love is what you make it no matter where

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 21:56

OK.think its time someone who is cleaver.(coss i an not.!) to youtube my song.!!! PLEASE.



Heatwave,,Always and forever.....then we can all have a slow dance with our loved ones.AHHHHHHHHHH..





Spider.X



P.S.I love Mr Spider more every day..such a quiet,kind and loving man.

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 22:04

You have a great man spider keep hold of him

take care

sheila xx

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 22:08

There you go Spider!

Enjoy!

Natx



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=veoq02P6dBk

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 22:11

Press the pause button on the left and wait for it all to load before listening, so you can have your dance without interruptions!

Natx

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 22:13

Nat,I came here some 9 months ago to live/retire,.I am a young 66!!!!!

A lady from UK,wanting to come and live on this beautiful island wrote on Cyprus 44 asking for advice where to stay etc.

After a few emails on 44 we corresponded direct.Many many times.

We finally met in Istanbul a few months ago,then she came to Lapta a month ago.We meet again in Istanbul in 13 days time,then back to Lapta in August,again September.

Yes,we have fallen madly in love!!! We talk every night,email,text many times a day.

When our divorces are through,I will ask Sandra to marry me.

In fact,I'll do it now....My Darling Sandra,I love you so much will you please marry me as soon as we can?

Cari ti loads xxxxx

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 22:21

waow! So here it is the first Cyprus 44 meeting, love and now proposal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



I love your story mikelapta and wish you both all the best from the bottom of my heart!



It's never too late, we have all been with the wrong people but you have found eachother now and that is the important thing, may you lives together always be filled with love, hapiness, health and peace....



Natx

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 22:22

Can we make this thread 'hot' now and keep to the top so Sandra sees when she logs in?!

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 22:23

Hi Michael

I am so happy for you and Sandra you deserve to have found the love of your life, what a lovely post

Every happiness to you both

Sheila x

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 22:25

Thanks Nat,just had our dance.xxxx



Mike we wish you all the very best..good luck....come on Sandra.....





Spider.x

Sandie


Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 251

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:00

Mike



Darling the answer is "Yes" - I would be very proud to be your wife because I love you so very, very much xxxx

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:06

OMG....many many congratulations to you both. Its hard work living together for the first few years..i remember that well.!! but love has a way...always laugh together,

Wishing you both lots of



LOVE.LAUGHTER,and HAPPINESS,together.god bless ya both..and hope to meet up with you one day.



Spider.X

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:10

Thank you Darling.Do I get a kiss in Istanbul????

xxxxxxxxxxxxx

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:15

Great Joy and Happiness Sandra, I hope that you and Michael will always have health and happiness

and lots of laughs along the way, Good Luck

Dont forget our Invite, as Bridesmaid,Maid of Honour we have to choose our clothes and especially a hat

give us plenty or warning.

Sheila x

Sandie


Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 251

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:25

Mike Darling, I suppose I should say "not until that ring is my finger", but just remember I am an Essex girl so kisses are allowed!!!!!! xxxxxxxx



Nat - thank you so much for starting this post - I am so very happy and excited , Mike means the world to me!

Sheila & Spider - Thank you so much for your congraturlations - I am doing my utmost to be in Lapta full time as soon as I can, so hope to meet up with you in the not too distant future. Sandra xxx

Sandie


Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 251

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:30

Mike sorry missed a word out "On" my finger - must be all the excitement. Pink champagne in 13 sleeps xxxxxxx

Sandie


Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 251

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:43

Nat



As you are clever can you You tube our song Michael Ball "Love Changes Everything" from Aspects of Love. Only I took Mike's CD home to Essex to copy and he does not have it until we meet again on 10 July. I am sure he would love to hear it. Sandra xx

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:46

Congratulations Sandie!!! I am so happy although could not imagine the post would end this way!...



Have a wonderful time in Istanbul together, at this exciting time for you both...



...a song of love for the two of you, hoping that you like Andrea Bocelli...



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_MZSexOqN54



This is the start of your lives together...may you always be as happy and excited as you are now & your



hearts forever filled with 'çok aşk'-lots of love ;0)



Iyi geceler,



Natasha xxx

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:48

Of course, it's on its' way just uploading your song now...give me one minute!

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:52

Michael Ball 'Love changes Everything' for Mike & Sandie...



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gnLE0N87T6k

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:54

Aspects of love video 'Love Changes Everything'



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=43KfEb1mY8E

Lemtich



Joined: 15/02/2007
Posts: 1487

Message Posted:
27/06/2009 23:58

I asked my wife what she would do if I won the Lottery?



She told me she would take half my winnings and leave me.



I told her, I just have, here's 5 quid, p*ss off!



Lem

Sandie


Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 251

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 00:07

Nat - Thank you so much - I have just listened to the link - tears streaming down my face, but of happiness!!xx

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 00:21

no problem Sandra and now as my own fiance has just got back from doing the late shift at work I will sign off with a smile on my face and faith as always in love!

Buona notte!

Natasha xxx

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 01:29

you are all so romantic and im so jealous. Mike and Sandie you both know and it goes without saying how happy am for both of you. I wish for you both all the love peace and happiness iin the world. I thank God I could serve you the pink fizz. Mike I am so proud of you as you stuck to your guns and found this beautiful lady. I would have snapped you up myself.Sandie I am so very pleased for you both. I am so lucky to witness the love you share xxxxxxxxxx

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 07:00

Come on Negnick lets hear about Gary Monger and his wifes love. Cause if she is as bad as you say I guess he really must love her!

Congratulations to Mike & Sandra.

As for myself hubby gone to golf, me going to do the mopping, After 38 years you would think I would have some sense, its an unfair world. guess I must love him!

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 09:45

Thank you my Dearest Sandra for making me the happiest man in the world.

Thank you Nat for starting this thread,and putting on Michael Ball and Andrea's records.

Our 2 favourites,how did you know?

Lilli,Smithy etc for your lovely comments.

On a serious note,when I retired here some 10 months ago,I did ask Izzet to start a "singles"section,in order that people like me could meet others in a similar situation.Nothing transpired.

I hope and pray that others who seek a partner keep trying,there is a special person there,somewhere.

But,I know in my heart,and I am not religious,it was the power of prayer.

Sandra,13 more sleeps until we meet in Istanbul,I promise you laughter,and more laughter,and pink champagne!!!Not just in Istanbul,for the rest of our livesxxxxxx

Mike

Sandie


Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 251

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 10:55

Thank you Cyprus 44 as without you I would not have met Mike who I adore. Thank you everyone for your fantastic comments, you are great xx



Mike - Today I am so happy it hurts. I promise to make you as happy as I can darling, even if the TL's are short are and we can only afford Cava!! Speak later xxxxxx

joandjelly


Joined: 24/02/2008
Posts: 2953

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 11:36

What a lovely thread. It's my 16th wedding anniversary today and we went out for a lovely meal at 14 last night. I love him more every day. Congratulations to you both.

cyprusairsoft



Joined: 22/06/2009
Posts: 2066

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 20:10

well done nat good thread



but our relationship which is rock solid boils down to the sex thing if you aint no good you wont stick together lol



good luck to all that find happiness

cyprusairsoft



Joined: 22/06/2009
Posts: 2066

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 20:22

nat why do you think people go to different countries to buy a wife like the phillipines russia etc

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 20:47

Lilli, you can't complain with your Italian stallion and he is a chef, not just a chef a great chef...bliss!



nurseawful, well if it's any consolation I was cleaning and mopping and changing the bed etc all day today too!

Hope your hubby had a good morning at golf!



Happy anniversary joandjelly, glad to hear you are still in love, lovely post!...reminds me still have to get down to 14 restaurant, sounds so nice!



cyprusairsoft didn't know you could say 'sex' on here, well you did so I will! Yes I think it's an important part of the relationship



re your msg 37, I have no idea why people would go to 'buy a wife', I don't think such a thing should be allowed and is degrading for women, am not going to go into this as I know what it will turn into and I did say at the beginning I wanted a nice thread! However, my only comment is this: (taken from an old song)

'Money can't buy you love'

Natx

elko2



Joined: 24/07/2007
Posts: 4400

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 21:06

As "The Most Helpful Member" I can say quite a few things on the subject but I am reminded of the standard caution "You do not have to say anything but if you do it may be written down and used in evidence against you".



I have been married for almost 36 years and I must say we have enjoyed almost every single day of it. My wife's profession happens to be my major hobby, so that helped but I think the most important factor is respect for each other and tolerance.



Let me give you one single example of what I mean by tolerance. About ten years ago I went to the Cebitt exhibition in Hannover and I stayed at a guest house run by a Turkish family. I shared my room with a very polite Turkish gentleman. On my return home my wife discovered one earring and one gold cross in the pocket of my luggage. I had no idea how they came to be there and I could not offer any explanation. It is a mystery to me to this day. My wife was tolerant enough not to make a fuss of it. Wise girl.

ismet

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 22:53

Elko,thanks for your profound statement.In summary I think the answer is trust.Sandra and I have been there,done that.....now we are ready to be together on this beautiful island.But you can't

fight that thing called love.Despite my 3 previous marriages I now know this is the real thing!Sandra may confirm this.

And yes Nat that s*x is important,even at our ages.Sandra may confirm this!!!

No more confirmations.

Istanbul just 12 more sleeps..or lack of sleeps

CyprusSmile


Joined: 28/06/2009
Posts: 7

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 23:27

Love is the greatest thing on Aphrodite's Island!

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
28/06/2009 23:47

LOVE?! No such thing, it's an euphemism to drive people to war and kill one another!



Richard

Sandie


Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 251

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 08:53

Elko - Respect and trust so important. Mike and I are thousands of miles apart at the moment so without trust it would not be the wonderful relationship that it is.



Mike - yes I confirm this is the real thing despite our ages and yes there must be passion. We have the whole package darling xx

dav88



Joined: 01/08/2008
Posts: 605

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 10:20

Wow I have just read the whole thread and I am so amazed to witness Mike`s proposal to Sandra Congratulations to both of you, I think this will be the first offical Cyprus44 wedding, I wish you all the very best x x x x x x

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 10:45

Sandra,don't worry we'll always have champagne.

Izzet said he will get Hello Magazine

Lilli will have reception.

She promised free champagne for life.

I didn't have my hearing aid on.

Might have been "Free champagne..not on my life!!!"

Thanks everyone again for lovely messages.

xxxxxxxxxx

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 10:56

Mike and Sandra - Congratulations to you both on your forthcoming wedding. I hope you'll be very happy together for the rest of your lives.

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 11:10

Mike, Sandra

If you have Love/Trust and Each Other you have all the Wealth in the World,

What else do you need,

keep us up to date when the engagement/wedding will take place

Health and Happiness always

Sheila xx

Trudy


Joined: 25/05/2009
Posts: 369

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 11:29

Aww a happy post at last!!!



Congratulations guys!! That was the sweetest thing i have read in ages!! Wish you both all the best!

billyboy1


Joined: 01/06/2009
Posts: 590

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 11:39

Makes a change to see something nice and positive on this forum....



Congratulations to sandra and Mike....may your future lives together be all that you wish for



I found my partner on a dating website after my last divorce....(Found out the ex was dating after 5 weeks of us splitting up, so decided to dip my toe in the waters again.....a bit scary meeting someone from a dating site, have to be careful and aware of security measures....we have now been together 2 years and r very happy.....

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 11:48

Billyboy1 thats great news, every happiness to you both

sheila

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 16:44

well billboy1 this site is turning into a bit like a dating service it seems, lol!

Great news, I have two friends in England who also met that way and are now married with a lovely baby boy!Keep the happy love stories coming and updates from people who met on Cyprus44!

Natx

elko2



Joined: 24/07/2007
Posts: 4400

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 16:48

My son and his wife met on a discussion forum and took it from there.



Now as a good moslem who can have four wives, I think Cyprus44 is a promising forum, no need to look elsewhere

ismet

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 16:57

Now now Ismet four wives indeed, with your beautiful wife why would you look for a second/third/fourth

or do you tell her that to keep her on her toes

cyprusairsoft



Joined: 22/06/2009
Posts: 2066

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 17:18

elko said "I had no idea how they came to be there and I could not offer any explanation. It is a mystery to me to this day. My wife was tolerant enough not to make a fuss of it. Wise girl.



good job she didnt find the mini skirt and suspender belt eh elko lol?

cyprusairsoft



Joined: 22/06/2009
Posts: 2066

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 17:53

good points nat re the buying of wifes or husbands come to that



point i was making its sad that people cant seem to find happiness unless they purchase it with a dating agency or

an off the shelf wife from the phillipines etc.



russian women are cueing up for american men and european men as an escape from the povety and corruption of their countries very sad

elko2



Joined: 24/07/2007
Posts: 4400

Message Posted:
29/06/2009 21:33

Cyrusairsoft,

I have seen the sex tourism in Thailand and it is really disgusting. The night clubs in TRNC is another form of sex slavery. We need more conscientious politicians to shut down the nightclubs and the casinos. It is something we can do without. I can accept that brothels serve a purpose but night clubs is something different and we often hear of cases where women are held there against their wishes. Their passports are confiscated and they are forced to sign bonds in order to keep them under control. It is a disgrace on the country.

ismet

PS: Sorry Nat for turning this nice thread into something else. Let us get back on track and talk about love.

tommy13


Joined: 29/04/2009
Posts: 979

Message Posted:
30/06/2009 00:58

sorry nat , but elko , may i ask what youve got against casinos , why have you said youd like to see them shut down please ?

elko2



Joined: 24/07/2007
Posts: 4400

Message Posted:
30/06/2009 08:37

Tommy,

As far as Casinos go, I believe you possibly have a vested interest in them and thus you may be considered biased. I am not. Gambling is in the nature of humans but it is also an evil. I never gamble and don't even buy lottery tickets, so I am an extremist on the other hand



It is still illegal to gamble in coffee shops but it is legal in betting shops and casinos because they pay lots of taxes to the government. Gambling is an addiction and kills family life and the children suffer most. It should not be encouraged. It is almost as bad as addiction to drugs and should be stamped out. I am ashamed that this country has become a heaven of brothels and casinos. I believe brothels run by a madamme may be functional and serve a purpose but night clubs are nothing else but prostitution and crime hand in hand.

ismet

tommy13


Joined: 29/04/2009
Posts: 979

Message Posted:
30/06/2009 09:09

Excellent , ... i apologise i mislead you with my questioning slightly , I was hoping for that answer actually , I agree with your point of veiw and I do not and will not have a vested interest in casinos now nor at anytime in the future. ( the hotel will be the first non casino 5 star establishment in NC ) .

May I ask do u perform 'Salat'

Troodo


Joined: 12/06/2008
Posts: 1002

Message Posted:
30/06/2009 09:44

I met the right girl forty-seven years ago; we have been married for forty years come August. Not everyone is that lucky.



Ismet.

If you close the night clubs down where will the soldiers go and the people less fortunate than you and I. This is a small place; the government should be able to police these establishments properly. You need to stamp out the corruption in higher places before you think of forcing prostitution on to the streets.



Troodo.

elko2



Joined: 24/07/2007
Posts: 4400

Message Posted:
30/06/2009 10:42

Msg. 60

Troodo,

To answer your question about the needs of soldiers and others please read more carefully what I wrote: "I believe brothels run by a madamme may be functional and serve a purpose but night clubs are nothing else but prostitution and crime hand in hand". So I am not against the old fashioned brothels run by the madamme of the house. They serve a basic purpose but night clubs is big business run mostly by crime cartels.

ismet

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
30/06/2009 10:57

Hold on a minute

Has someone strayed from this lovely topic

all of a sudden we are talking about prostitues and brothels, did I drop off to sleep and miss the new posting

come on guys this was one of the few NICE postings dont ruin it.

sheila

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
30/06/2009 11:01

lol agreed smithy!

ps should be at gym bright & early Thurday have some things to do today & tomorrow!

well, hopefully see you there soon!

Natx

elko2



Joined: 24/07/2007
Posts: 4400

Message Posted:
30/06/2009 15:17

Ok Smithy, let us talk about love. How is this? http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/photo.php?pid=2090500&id=740815487&ref=nf

ismet

loslobos


Joined: 02/04/2009
Posts: 167

Message Posted:
30/06/2009 19:21

and what exactly do you want to know about love ?

elko2



Joined: 24/07/2007
Posts: 4400

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 08:48

NatAlass,

Love must be very scarce amongst C44 members. This thread could not even make the 100 mark!!!

ismet

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 14:48

I could have said a lot more,but as are most of the majority of posts,hijacked by people not looking at topic,and starting unnecessary threads eg casinos,sex tourism.

A lovely forum Nat,it made me

realise what a special lady,Sandra, I've found through Cyprus44.

I wish all other single/divorced people he best of luck in their quest for happiness

Mike and Sandie

Littlenige



Joined: 24/12/2006
Posts: 3594

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 14:52

Love is everything it's cracked up to be.



That's why people are so cynical about it...It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for



And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more."



You only get out of a relationship what you put in.

NatAless



Joined: 31/03/2009
Posts: 789

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 15:11

well said Littlenige, I agree!

Natx

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 15:12

Littlenige



That depends on how large your bank account is and how wisely you've scuttled away funds only known to yourself waiting for that rainy day!



Richard

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 15:17

Well done Troodo on nearly 40 years of marriage not many people last that long nowadays. We will have been married for 38 years in December.

Anyone out there that can beat Troodos 40 years?

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 15:22

40 years of happy, lonely bliss. Does that count?



Richard

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 15:36

Love is like a friendship caught on fire: In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love. The most wonderful of all things in life is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a growing depth, beauty and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvellous thing; it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of divine accident, and the most wonderful of all things in life...

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 15:47

No 1Doven



And I thought 'Faith' was a girls name! That's where I've been going wrong all these decades!



Richard

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 15:48

Bill,No1 Doyen,that's the loveliest description I have ever read,thank you.And so true.

Ever seen a 66 year old man crying looking at a computer screen?

Wait 'til Sandie sees that this evening.

Thanks

Mike

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 15:58

Some of these postings leads me to believe that some of these 'partners' must be so sycophantic to their 'loved' ones which subconsciously carry a huge amount of latent guilt!



Richard

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 16:09

Richard....."you gotta have faith"..............

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 16:14

No 1Doyen



You still haven't provided me with her phone number!



Richard

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 16:44

Richard. ))

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 17:24

Brindsley,message 76 and some previous.I admire your use of the English language...perhaps any ladies you may date,will not understand you.

KISS

Keep It Simple,Stupid

Mike

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 17:31

mikelapta



Tried that and got banned twice! I do not tolerate fools but my droll, dry, warped sense of humour does get me into trouble, hence having no loved one and no friends! What the hell, I'm a Kiwi!



Richard

AlsancakJack



Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 5762

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 17:39

Brinsley

Message 81:

Maybe you make life too complicated for yourself.

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 18:22

Richard, you've got friends on here! See even I've got a warped sense of humour ))

Sandie


Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 251

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 18:56

Bill Msg 73 What wonderful words and so, so true! The most wonderful thing for me was discovering Mike and seeing how our love has grown in such a short time - "divine intervention" are words we have used ourselves. Now I am in tears just thinking about it. Sandie xx

Mike - you told me no more tears, soon be in Istanbul - Love You Darling xxxx

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 19:22

Brinsley first,sorry didn't know you were a Kiwi,I'm so sorry.Did coming out with that help

I'll be your friend anytime.

Mike

bachelibelly


Joined: 04/09/2008
Posts: 275

Message Posted:
01/07/2009 20:07

Personally always found the secret to a fun and happy relationship is changing partners every 7 years or so !! PS. can be a tad expensive though !

Nobody


Joined: 17/07/2009
Posts: 2

Message Posted:
18/07/2009 09:27

I want to talk about sad love story.

HE has 63 - SHE has 49,

HE - an Englishman, SHE - Russian;

HE does not want to marry, SHE does not want to live "in sin"

HE could not find a reason she stay here, SHE could not find a reason to stay here with him,

HE will live in England and Cyprus, SHE will be living in Russia.

They will never meet more.

Now she is looking for a good English woman for her close friend - will brighten up his loneliness life here ...

Help her find perfect woman for perfect man!

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
18/07/2009 10:08

gisomo that toook me back xxxx