wish i never moved to NC sometimes

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 13:37

wish i never moved here some times everything is so expensive nothing to do so boring and no good shops

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 13:37

no jobs to

daisy dukes


Joined: 06/09/2008
Posts: 3815

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 13:41

I couldn't agree more Supermaid!



DD

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 13:44

Denise you are young and there isnt a lot to do for your age here, but you will find that there are lot of friends on this board who meet up for meals nights out etc you will be surprised, let people know that you need to get together even for a chat.

Sheila

eager


Joined: 23/02/2007
Posts: 1272

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 13:47

Did you not check the place out first ?

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 13:49

i did i am a cyp but didnt think it be like this i miss uk so much thats my home

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 13:52

true sheila but i miss uk so so much

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 13:52

Denise,

It takes time to settle into a new country. And remember all your family are here if you went back you would miss them terribly.

Chris

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 13:54

i know nurseful thats the thing but its just really upsetting me my hubby cant find a job and its so hard

Ossie


Joined: 19/01/2008
Posts: 311

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 14:01

SuperMaids,stop wingeing and go back to the UK.There's enough moaners here so if you don't like it shove off!

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 14:01

true ossie

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 14:15

Re msg 10 , there is no need to be quite so blunt !

7wonder


Joined: 14/03/2008
Posts: 96

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 14:19

I think it's possible to find the job, it's just the pay, whether or not you will be willing to work for that little. I just started working for the local estate agy., I do 3 days a week for 1000 tl a month, no commission. Some people might say that's not worth getting out of bed for, but I am happy with it, it gets me out and about and the people I work with are all lovely. So keep looking and stay positive.

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 14:24

There you go Denise tell hubby to go and work for estate agents! good Luck

Woodspeckie


Joined: 25/01/2009
Posts: 2263

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 14:35

SuperMaid. 3 days ago you said you loved living there and business was doing well?

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 14:38

Woodspeckie,

Give the kid a break she has a lot going on at the minute not only with work.

I am not surprised she get a bit down at times.

never mind Denise things can only get better.

Woodspeckie


Joined: 25/01/2009
Posts: 2263

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 14:45

Only quoted what she said. Nothing wrong with that is there?

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 15:02

i am sorry for moaning just have lot going on as nurseful knows thanks anyways guys

ilovecyprus


Joined: 08/05/2007
Posts: 2880

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 15:20

Hi Supermaids



In your title you said 'sometimes'. 'Sometimes' is transitory and not forever.

Thats great, this suggests that there are real moments when you feel more positive about NC. A good strategy when you are down, would be to focus on those things and moments that you do like about NC.

It may not chnge the reality of the situation, but it might help you to feel more resourceful when you need to be.

Good luck and I hope things get better for you

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 15:26

thanks i love cyprus and its true is sometimes i regret coming here

MrsSnakes



Joined: 19/12/2008
Posts: 1100

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 15:32

Hi, Dont be sorry!!! It is a huge upheaval to relocate anywhere let alone a new country, no matter what age or who you are. Some days I feel a bit low if things are not going to plan and wish I was back in the Uk in more familar surroundings.....but after a recent trip back, I missed it here too!! It must be hard with a very young child and looking for work as you are still very young. I am not sure but there may be a 'mums and toddlers' group you could join to meet other young parents, I think maybe Black Olives do something like that. Maybe Mums on here could advise you. Best Wishes.



Mrs Snakes xx

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
09/11/2009 15:34

thanks mrs snakes