Lonely I am so lonely I have nobody.

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 12:40

Do I sound sad, 4 years ago had a great circle of girlie mates, but over the years they have all left the Country….was it something I said. Would like to make new girlfriends. I have a group of older friends (60 +) who are all couples which is great but would like to meet more girls my own age (50) or younger who like to meet up for girlie nights in and out, meet up for a drink, trips to Turkey, sunday lunches, have a boogie (yes I know impossible in Cyprus, remember those days back in the UK when you went to a nice kitted out bar that played good music with a small dance floor tucked in the corner, I never stopped to dance all night. They have never come up with anything like that here). I know there are coffee mornings but not my scene so please dont suggest it. Would point out that I have a fella in my life so not 100% free all the time but to have a great circle of girlie mates would lift my spirit so much and girlies are a great source for networking and helping each other

daisy dukes


Joined: 06/09/2008
Posts: 3815

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 12:46

Dear Lostfound

I understand completely, and although i am a tad younger (40) i would happiliy meet up with you, my only problem, is it that i live in Karsiyaka, and taxi's from Kyrenia can be super expensive. But if you ever come out my way, send me a little email and we can sort something out. I look forward to meeting you.



DD

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 12:51

Yes that is the problem. My one female and single buddy does live near Merit Hotel and so sometimes we go Sunset or Bar 8.8 but I seem to be going that way more and more and would rather meet up in Town or be great to meet anyone closer to Catalkoy. Anyway yes would be happy to arrange to meet up with you next time Im down that way, I will email your private address. This is such a small island maybe we know each other anyway ha ha! Do you drive?

skybluesam


Joined: 24/12/2008
Posts: 447

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 13:17

Hello, we live in Catalkoy, my wife Carol would be more than willing to meet up and have a chat.

E-mail nudger@ayza.net

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 13:20

Hi Carol. Trying to get a network up and running via private emails. Will email you.

yorkie58


Joined: 16/09/2008
Posts: 245

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 13:59

Oh you do sound a little down. Would send you an email but your address is not available.



Female 51 Karakum ;-)

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 15:06

yes yours too JIM so we are not going to get very far. Dont really want to put mine up as you know what can of worms that can open. Can always arrange to meet your "female friend" at our local one evening via this forum.

yorkie58


Joined: 16/09/2008
Posts: 245

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 15:42

lol, Jim's wife actually and if you scroll down on my details you will see a contact email address.

stellasstar1



Joined: 02/07/2008
Posts: 1519

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 15:43

I just checked my info to make sure my email address is still their. I wouldn't worry about putting it for members to read. I don't think I've ever had more than 2 or 3 emails from members on this board, and I've been a member almost from the beginning. I do wonder why we have to put our year of birth.

LoopyLou



Joined: 31/07/2009
Posts: 189

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 16:53

Hi Lynn



I am 53 not too far ahead of you, live in Bahceli and been here for 7 months so haven't got any girlie friends that live here all the time to go out with, I like a laugh and a drink, do drive and have the use of the car. E mail me and we can meet up sunnybutterfly22@hotmail.com for a coffee/drink in the daytime or nightime.



Thanks Linda...................

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 17:28

Lynn I came over here 5 years ago on my own, but we had lots of get togethers and you meet loads of new friends, you never have time to be lonely, of course I miss my family, but friends here are great get out and meet them, they dont come to you

Sheila

magolina


Joined: 06/12/2008
Posts: 461

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 17:37

Hi,

can you sing ?? Why not give choruslambousa a shot, great crowd of people male female and all ages we also have nights out together check local paper for details I went on my own and am glad I did.

LoopyLou



Joined: 31/07/2009
Posts: 189

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 18:36

Hi - Forgot to say I go to Line Dancing on a Wednesday 4.30-6pm at the Kings Bar Turtle Bay Complex

we have a good laugh and it helps you keep fit, come along on Wednesday and let me know who you are - Linda............

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 20:50

Yorkie 88...sorry I cant see any email address?

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 20:54

Stella, note you live Lapta, would you be prepared to meet up in Town some evenings? Let me know and Ill start to email you on your private email address for mobiles.

cooper


Joined: 23/10/2007
Posts: 3386

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 20:57

yorkie58 email address is in her member space on the left.

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 21:01

LoopyLou



Sounds great will email you.

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 21:02

Smithy



Does that mean you are willing to meet up? If so will email you on your private address.

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
16/11/2009 21:11

Magolina...Christine



What made you ask if I can sing? Im already a member so guess we know each other then. Wasnt aware of any girlie nights out (just 1 in 2 years). Maybe us Catalkoy folk are not invited. Most of the chorus have partners and live in Lapta so they wouldnt be prepared to come to Town.

ClaireCat44



Joined: 17/09/2008
Posts: 739

Message Posted:
17/11/2009 08:34

LostFound, can you email me? I don't want to write on here where everyone can see!

Denise


Joined: 14/03/2009
Posts: 590

Message Posted:
17/11/2009 09:23

can you email me?

Tenakoutou



Joined: 27/07/2009
Posts: 4110

Message Posted:
17/11/2009 09:31

One could get the impression that the 'fella in my life' is rather anti-social; or have you, without realising, become too much 'under the thumb'? I hope not, for your sake! Perhaps it's time to take stock of your current relationship. It does seem odd that you crave 'female only' company, as normally, when couples meet up at any social gathering, eventually males and females each gravitate towards their own to discuss subjects relative to their gender. It is during these these types of conversations that the individual generally meets someone he, or she, takes a liking to and makes arrangements to meet up together, for whatever purpose, at a later date. Unfortunately, this doesn't seem to have happened much for you, which is why, perhaps, you and your 'fella' need to get out and about more.



No criticism intended - just trying to help; admittedly from the male point of view!

stellasstar1



Joined: 02/07/2008
Posts: 1519

Message Posted:
17/11/2009 09:56

Re-message 22, again no criticism intended, but as i was reading Lost & Founds first message I was wondering the same thing. You do sound very fed up with life at the monent, but then so do I sometimes, but I haven't got a partner to go and have a moan to or be given a hug. Not much point in us meeting up, as I'm over 60, and you said you want to meet younger. Good luck in your new friends and hope you feel better soon.

Stella

Corbo



Joined: 13/09/2009
Posts: 627

Message Posted:
17/11/2009 10:09

Loneliness is an odd and sometimes profound thing. You can feel it in London surrounded by 10 million people..indeed I tend to more so there than anywhere else. Isolated on your own after a time in the wilderness you can actually achieve a certain peace of mind with some mental effort. I'm alone over here in a big Villa but not too lonely as yet. Will have to make an effort to get out and about.

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
17/11/2009 10:21

Please expect an email from me shortly, Ive got to be a tad frugal and turn off my geni now will get back to you asap.

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
17/11/2009 23:24

Member magolina

Name christine thompson



Come on Christine identify yourself. I was at Chorus Lambousa tonight and didnt see a Christine Thompson on the list? Lets meet up for a drink then on Friday in Town.

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
19/11/2009 10:53

back to the top.

Freethinker


Joined: 18/03/2009
Posts: 91

Message Posted:
19/11/2009 12:47

What happened with the 'mingles' night last Sunday in Catalkoy ....did anyone go and is it on again this Sunday?

Queen180


Joined: 13/04/2009
Posts: 399

Message Posted:
21/11/2009 17:40

If anyone is interested Back in Time Cafe Bar in Girne has a Ladies Night every Thursday night from now on - if you want to meet new female friends..... More details call Tricia on 0533 842 3500

AlexF065


Joined: 07/09/2009
Posts: 271

Message Posted:
21/11/2009 18:12

people can feel lonely in a crowd

I dont think it matters if they havea relationship or not you still need to be yourself from time to time and i for one HATE to be joined at the hip



people who are i tend to think have suspisions about what there other half might be up to when they are out the picture

magolina


Joined: 06/12/2008
Posts: 461

Message Posted:
21/11/2009 18:43

Hi

I also am known as Chrys Ismail so who are you?? bet we talk all the time

britvic



Joined: 05/09/2008
Posts: 3039

Message Posted:
21/11/2009 21:09

Here have a look at this: http://www.cyprus44.com/forums/26498.asp

vikingqueen



Joined: 07/02/2009
Posts: 241

Message Posted:
22/11/2009 08:29

message 24... some women are not prepared to go out alone and into bars ..................

bachelibelly


Joined: 04/09/2008
Posts: 275

Message Posted:
22/11/2009 10:58

AlexF065, yes agree about space thing , although my personal view is one of always wanting what i dont have. ie. when i have been married i have craved the single life and vice versa ,am in between wives at the moment lol and have special times with my children and personally feel that life can be a relationship battlefield , would love the fairy tale , happy ever after, till death us do part etc. but up to now it aint appenin ,still i am only 15 ( in my head) so plenty of time. Men do have a distinct advantage as mentioned regarding entering bars alone but i feel in TRNC women should not feel as vulnerable taking part in this socialising process, also if in Bahceli/Esentepa area and in need of a chaperone ( who is house trained and neutered) then at your service lol,regds.

LostFound


Joined: 03/08/2009
Posts: 387

Message Posted:
22/11/2009 12:00

If any girlies want to meet new friends please dont respond on this post as its getting out of hand now. I will post new topic headed Girlie Nights make new friends so if you want to make new girlfriends please respond on that one.