I have had the day fro hell

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 00:18

phone ringing in the early hours of the morning. It means one thing. My favourite brother in law passed away. not yet 60. I had an appointment with an orthepedic doctor at girne hospital re my recent injury. not good. Trying to flights back, its half term. We were 7 children now 3. My baby sister is in pieces as you can imagine. I cant book a flight till i know when the funeral will be. To cap it all i hobble about trying to serve and my waiter calls to say he cant come in. Wehad a full house and all i want to do is speak to my family. Sorry but got it of my chest. im in pieces x

Maz


Joined: 29/03/2009
Posts: 1924

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 00:21

Write it all down, put it in a box and throw it into the sea. Get rid of it all and wait for a new clean sheet in the morning when you might know more, can book a flight, your foot might be better and your waiter will grovel an apology and work twice as hard.



Well, that is what I wish for you - hope it all happens.

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 00:26

maz thank you, i do but things in boxes and usually burn the bad things, cant do much till i know when the funeral is, but i need to be with my sister x

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 00:26

Liz

Listen to this, which may or not cheer you up!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N4sZUfQ97po



Richard

Glasbury


Joined: 13/08/2010
Posts: 268

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 00:29

Lilli - sorry to hear of the problems you are currently experiencing. I hope you get things sorted out asap. Best wishes - Glasbury.

Woodspeckie


Joined: 25/01/2009
Posts: 2263

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 00:29

Liz. Thinking of you at this sad time. xx

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 00:33

Richard thank you i loved it. My brother another recent departed was in that regiment as a drimmer and charlie my brother in law loved her, thank you so much. im sat here crying as i cant be with them. my sister from oz could find a flight no probs, me no luck unless its mega bucks which i do not have. thank you again. that was so thoughtful x

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 00:39

Glasbury and Woodie thank you. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

sloan



Joined: 24/02/2009
Posts: 808

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 01:01

Sorry to hear your sad news, Liz. Thinking of you. x

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 01:01

Found another for you, just to remind you of work!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DL2GmaI3Xus



Richard

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 01:09

thank you again Richard. i love her. many here think or swere they are Elvis also. Did you know i had the pleasure of meeting the real one in Germany

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 01:09

You can only cry so much until you laugh again, so here goes..............

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DL2GmaI3Xus



Richard

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 01:10

sloan thak you just another crisis xxxxxxxx

mistress


Joined: 29/08/2009
Posts: 57

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 08:25

Sorry to hear of your loss Liz, take care and see at Christmas.xx

Deniz1


Joined: 28/07/2009
Posts: 3829

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 08:54

Sincere condolences Liz Gods peace be with you and your family.x

numpty


Joined: 20/05/2009
Posts: 554

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 09:10

Sorry to hear your sad news Lillie, my thoughts are with you and your family,



Eileen xx

lovinit


Joined: 20/06/2008
Posts: 745

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 09:11

Sorry to hear your sad news, Liz. Thinking of you. x

billyboy1


Joined: 01/06/2009
Posts: 590

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 09:17

sorry to hear of your pain and the familys's......god bless your brother in law and all those that he has left behind.....



love and hugs from me and him xxxx

Linnyloos


Joined: 30/11/2008
Posts: 483

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 09:25

So sorry on your sad news Liz. My thoughts and prayers are with you xxx

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 10:03

Thank you all for your kind messages. x

sunshine22



Joined: 07/06/2010
Posts: 251

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 10:18

Sorry to hear your sad news Liz and my heart goes out to your sister. If there is anything I can do to help at the restaurant please do let me know, would be only to happy to help out.



Hugs

Carol x

doggiesteve


Joined: 06/10/2010
Posts: 265

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 10:37

sad news indeed.

scruffdog


Joined: 09/12/2008
Posts: 742

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 10:37

Lilli Hope you are feeling a little better now, so sorry for your loss. You need to be strong for the little ones, when you get to your family, the love with surround you and keep you safe. In the mean time, your friends are

here for you, and our thoughts and love are with you.



Di x

Sundance


Joined: 15/07/2010
Posts: 213

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 11:00

Lilli sorry to hear of your sad loss, may God be with you at this sad time and always,



Sundance

shrimp


Joined: 01/09/2010
Posts: 939

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 11:19

sending a hugx

Pipie


Joined: 05/01/2008
Posts: 5499

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 12:23

Sorry to hear your sad news Lilli .

helper


Joined: 16/01/2009
Posts: 235

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 12:30

Sorry to hear, thoughts and prayers go with you, Keep your chin up x

LordJim


Joined: 12/10/2010
Posts: 221

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 12:33

big hugs hope you make it back to the uk.

metin


Joined: 08/09/2008
Posts: 1588

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 12:44

Sorry to hear about your sad news.......

Have a good flıght , my thoughts are wıth you. xx

Chın up, and remember, thıngs can only get better. xxx

TopTen


Joined: 15/04/2009
Posts: 1246

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 12:46

So sorry for you Liz, but try keep smiling

janjin



Joined: 10/04/2008
Posts: 488

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 13:06

Lilli,

Sorry to hear of your family's loss. Please go easy on yourself and accept any help you can.

You will possibly feel better when you get to be with your family and have that special time with them.

Please give yourself some time to greave and try to not work too hard.

God bless

frontalman



Joined: 28/02/2008
Posts: 499

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 13:11

Sorry to hear of all the blows life has dealt you recently, Liz. I know you are a survivor, but sometimes it can all get a bit too much for even the strongest person. You can only do the possible, my heart is with you. I can't take away your pain but I can empathise.

basheer



Joined: 22/12/2008
Posts: 949

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 13:15

sorry to hear the news, pray for the family to be strong at this most diffult time and you.

early morning calls are never good news from my experience

bash

PaulW



Joined: 20/07/2009
Posts: 651

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 13:30

Hi Liz



So sorry to hear your sad news. Keep your chin up. Jean will e-mail you later.



With love



Paul and Jean

x

boglefan



Joined: 07/06/2009
Posts: 511

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 13:45

So very sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family. I hope you will manage to get a flight soon and get back to your family soon. XXX

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 14:25

Hi Lilli, so sorry I cant be there to give you a big hug and to help you in your time of need. I know you loved your Brother in law and they say the good ones go first, chin up and hope you get back to the family soon.

Lots of love

Sheila xxx

JohhnyLee


Joined: 25/04/2009
Posts: 2495

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 14:31

Lilli just read your posting, we are sorry to hear this sad news, You know you have pelnty of good friends, and lots of support,



Anything we can do , just let us know, Kind Regards Lee and Jan. xx

dublinderm


Joined: 26/09/2009
Posts: 538

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 14:51

Liz,



So sorry to hear of your loss.



You will be in our thoughts.



Dermot & Chris.

LondonCypriot


Joined: 15/12/2008
Posts: 426

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 15:11

I am extreamly sorry. You take care x

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 15:55

Thank you all your messages mean a lot to me.xxx

flightholiday


Joined: 19/07/2007
Posts: 3217

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 16:02

You know our message & feelings for you from our call and the number to call should be on your phone by now.



Tom

cfcscot


Joined: 13/10/2010
Posts: 7

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 21:58

I don't know you Lilli but my heart goes out to you.

Teresa


Joined: 21/11/2007
Posts: 1018

Message Posted:
22/10/2010 22:04

Liz my thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time xxx