Whats the problem to marry an english woman here?

happyitaliano


Joined: 02/06/2011
Posts: 60

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 13:02

I dont understand turks.Most of them including cypriots dont prefer to marry an english woman.whats wrong with them.I have no problem to marry an english woman if I find one that I could love

martinD41


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Posts: 3001

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 13:28

"What's wrong with them"?



Good Question,.

kamaks


Joined: 03/03/2009
Posts: 123

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 13:31

They are too independant!

Visitor


Joined: 19/08/2010
Posts: 492

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 13:36

I think many of them think they will end up with this



http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2040260/Binge-drinking-Shaming-images-turned-Britain-laughing-stock.html

Visitor


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Message Posted:
24/09/2011 13:37

just kidding?

stelee77


Joined: 06/06/2011
Posts: 557

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 13:40

English women act like men, half even look like men.



Go on you tube and type in english vs swedish night clubs.

martinD41


Joined: 06/09/2010
Posts: 3001

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 13:42

msg4 Those binge drinking in Cardiff, tend to be Welsh not English, I'm surprised they ( Welsh Women) want to spend that kind of money "by there look" .....

moxie


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Message Posted:
24/09/2011 14:08

msge 3 is correct.

moxie


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Message Posted:
24/09/2011 14:13

msge 6 ...yes your example is very convincing/realistic ...............not !!

stelee77


Joined: 06/06/2011
Posts: 557

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 14:17

Don't take it to seriously.

moxie


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Posts: 969

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 14:18

i wasnt ...really, ive seen it before

elko2



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Posts: 4400

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 14:19

I think most Turks want their wives to serve them rather than the opposite

ismet

moxie


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Message Posted:
24/09/2011 15:55

very true Ismet

yorgozlu



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Message Posted:
24/09/2011 16:33

most 'turks' would marry an english woman for easy access.................in uk.

Here..............for warm home and their money....................while they have it.







yet to figure out where I went wrong

flowerfairy


Joined: 17/09/2008
Posts: 1277

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 17:07

Men are like parking spaces......

all the good ones have gone, only the disabled ones are left.

Visitor


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Posts: 492

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 17:10

As an airplane is about to crash, a female passenger frantically jumps up, removes all her clothing and announces, "If I'm going to die, I want to die feeling like a woman. Is there anyone on this plane who is man enough?"



A man stands up, removes his shirt and says, "Here, iron this."





Just kidding!!!

martinD41


Joined: 06/09/2010
Posts: 3001

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 17:25

Strange thing about English Women, they marry you because they like what they see, then try (and usually succeed in trying) to change you ,then don't like what they see... Steer clear ,is my advise....

Blackbird



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Message Posted:
24/09/2011 17:41

If all brides are beautiful - where do ugly wives come from?

martinD41


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Message Posted:
24/09/2011 17:52

It's simple metamorphosis ,butterfly to ugly bug in 10 years.

Jeannie


Joined: 04/08/2009
Posts: 3283

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 18:00

Well, having read some of these posts, I'm not sure all us married women realise quite how lucky we are



We must learn to thank our lucky stars in future!

Tenakoutou



Joined: 27/07/2009
Posts: 4110

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 18:11

An excerpt from my novel - 'The Remittance Man's Roots'



The merry Yuletide festivities yielded numerous invitations to parties, where I met a variety of females of varying ages, backgrounds and occupations. I came to the conclusion that it was really I who was unsuitable to even consider trying to pursue a relationship with any of their ilk. They were all seeking the ‘perfect man’ – an achiever, computer literate and, preferably, to have undergone vasectomy.

I was a jobless under-achiever, mainly due to the fact that there wasn’t much call for underwater photographers on Humberside, or even Merseyside or Tyneside, in January! My computer literacy amounted to counting on four fingers and slipping an elastic band round my thumb for the memory! In addition, to cap it all, I didn’t shoot blanks with my ‘meat-gun’!

Tenakoutou



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Posts: 4110

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 18:14

Msg 21-Cont'd:



These women’s material expectations were way above my means and, having listened to their feminist claptrap, it didn’t take too much to deduce that these nags’ track record in the ‘Fidelity Stakes’ was abysmal. The contemporary relevance of the fundamental marriage vows were blatantly ignored or interpreted as being outmoded and consequently insignificant.

What concerned me most was the perception of ‘loyalty’ held by too many Western women.

To cite a ‘feline-orientated’ example: A man has a cat, for which he has always put cream out on a daily basis for the past, say, seven years, but one day he has run out of cream and only has milk. If his neighbour puts out cream to entice the cat, she will jump over the garden wall to the neighbour!

Tenakoutou



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Posts: 4110

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 18:15

Msg 21-Cont'd:



To cite such an analogy as pertaining to a large percentage of women, only serves to illustrate the degree of commitment that seems to be their conventional, accepted social practice. It is futile and feckless to brand such a factual assertion as the embittered ravings of a dyed-in-the-wool misogynist – the divorce statistics speak for themselves!

I could see no future in temporarily bankrolling some egotistical and potential opportunist. Being of a generous nature, I knew I presented fair game to a wily woman, well practised in the art of exploitation.

Jovial_John


Joined: 31/01/2009
Posts: 1024

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 18:49

Tenakoutou

That was beautifully expressed and so true.

But I think it is not so much the case in less Westernised countries. The girls I have met in Thailand and the Philippines (obviously excluding the 'commercial' women) do not have this feminist bent and are far happier to remain faithful in a genuinely equal relationship (even subservient although it is not to my taste). Or maybe they are even better con artists!

mozgor



Joined: 16/06/2010
Posts: 256

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 19:11

I'm Scottish and my hubby is Turkish - I was under the impression he married me cos he loved me? We've been married for over 10 years now.

Jeannie


Joined: 04/08/2009
Posts: 3283

Message Posted:
24/09/2011 19:42

mozgor - I'm sure he did. You look like a really nice couple

martinD41


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Message Posted:
24/09/2011 19:55

msg23 Beautifully put , and as eloquent as I would expect from someone like you my friend... ........................





I've got wonderful tonight in G....

moxie


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Message Posted:
24/09/2011 20:25

msge 14-24 soo funny but all true !!

rejela


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Message Posted:
24/09/2011 20:59

Message 15.

don't you mean All the good ones park in the disabled spaces?

mozgor



Joined: 16/06/2010
Posts: 256

Message Posted:
25/09/2011 01:24

Thanks Jeannie - yeh think he does, after all he's put up with me for so long. My comment was a wee bit tongue in cheek!!! Playing to the audience lol

Jeannie


Joined: 04/08/2009
Posts: 3283

Message Posted:
25/09/2011 01:55

mozgor - when I read my message, I realised I might have sounded like some kind of perv



What I meant was that you make a nice couple from your photograph - you look like a "couple".



Better quit while I'm behind, I think.



J

deputydawg


Joined: 30/03/2010
Posts: 1727

Message Posted:
25/09/2011 12:15

My ever increasing deafness in a marriage exceeding 47 years has brought some benefit to the relationship but I have negated most of this by involuntarily and foolishly learning to lip read by watching television. My eyes are now becoming as dim as my brain so all is not lost. The Wildebeest (bless her) is now displaying the first signs of madness by talking to herself !

flowerfairy


Joined: 17/09/2008
Posts: 1277

Message Posted:
26/09/2011 04:19

another old one...

men are like carpet tiles........ lay them well, then walk over them for the rest of their life.

Tenakoutou



Joined: 27/07/2009
Posts: 4110

Message Posted:
26/09/2011 10:57

martinD41/msg 27:



I've got 'Wonderful Tonight' sorted in G, too + harmonica bit!



So not to deviate from the subject of this thread - this song eulogises an English woman - or, presumably she was!



So, listen to that song, 'happyitaliano'/msg 1, and keep wishing and hoping!

happyitaliano


Joined: 02/06/2011
Posts: 60

Message Posted:
03/10/2011 21:45

If I meet the right woman,I want to get married Tenakoutou

bigOz


Joined: 29/09/2010
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Message Posted:
03/10/2011 22:13

Time is running out fast happyitaliano - you better hurry up mate, and stop being too fussy about the nationality

Clarissa2


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Message Posted:
03/10/2011 22:16

Does THIS thread serve any purpose?!

Tenakoutou



Joined: 27/07/2009
Posts: 4110

Message Posted:
04/10/2011 16:06

Clarissa2/msg 37: 'Does THIS thread serve any purpose?!'



It certainly does, 'Clarissa2' - it epitomises the very 'raison d'etre' of any social forum - that is: a person's right to air any sort of drivel - within reason, of course!

happyitaliano


Joined: 02/06/2011
Posts: 60

Message Posted:
08/10/2011 10:38

You are right bigOz,but its not easy to find the right woman to marry